Katie July 17, 2012, 9:42 am
We agree to you… i dunno. Its difficult. I recently know personally i couldnt just let the girl glare at me for no reason… like, sorry woman, be angry at him. I’ve done absolutely nothing to you. But thats simply anyone I will be.
Like i stated, i wouldnt go out of my method to make an effort to communicate with her, but she will turn her focus from the LW being an issue to the guy being the issue, which is what is going on if she sets the record straight with the girlfriend, hopefully.
Katie 17, 2012, 9:50 am july
As well as, just exactly what can you wanna bet that he’s feeding their brand new gf the entire “crazy ex” routine to describe why they talk all of the time? And was operating into one another really and truly just a coincidence?
Nadine July 17, 2012, 9:52 am
I will realise why you’ll believe that means, it isnt nice never to be liked, but We browse the page as being in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, maybe maybe maybe not the ex-BF relationship that is current. Thats simply a complicator. The LW is only able to get a handle on her very own actions, and ignore the ex-BF calling and being aggravating. New GF to his relationship is none of her company, and frankly, the 2 girls need not be friends at all. It could you should be an additional connect to the man when it comes to LW, who’s wanting to cut psychological ties.
Katie 17, 2012, 9:54 am july
Thats a point that is good sure!
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am
Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I used to be buddies with this specific number of dudes whom once had such lady-issues, and all sorts of the girls they dated would get crazy i’d get really surprised, cos they seemed so normal to me on them after a couple of weeks and? Then we realised it ended up beingn’t the girls, its the people. In addition to girls had been all simply normal those who, you understand, wished to understand if that they had a boyfriend or not…….
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:04 am
Yea. Its love, as soon as that occurs enough times- what’s the denominator that is common? YOU MAY BE!!
I do feel detrimental to this GF that is new. She deserves to own a guy’s attention that is full. And she deserves some guy who isnt hung through to his ex, calling her and telling her which he still longs for her and material. Thats messed up! And she probably hates the LW because she’s being told by the man a lot of crap about her. Its simply all incorrect. The whole thing.
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:09 am
Personally I think bad she needs to look out for herself for her too, but. Its difficult being the very first gf after a long relationship, but thats really why many people go into all of them with their eyes available. Oh and the man has to“ stop droppingBut We have a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. We keep imagining him carrying it out the real means the crossdresser does it in minimal Britain, maybe you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”
Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:25 am
Yeah that “but I have girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW understands he is just looking for a reaction everytime he says it that he has a GF. He desires the LW become like “well I don’t care if you do have a GF, i am going to still blow you” or “Dump that skank, and get back to me”
Katie 17, 2012, 10:27 am july
Yea, its like whenever i was in twelfth grade and me personally and my boyfriend would split up every single other week, and then he would “accidently” text me personally or something like that just therefore we would fight and acquire straight back together.
Lets_be_honest July 17, 2012, 2:45 pm
@katie, hahaha “just so we would fight and obtain right straight back together”
Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 10:05 am
I’ve said right right here a great deal, if the man whips out of the word “crazy” I operate one other method. I understand therefore men that are many utilize that word to full cover up for his or her dickish behavior.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am
We don’t understand why people would phone somebody crazy within the place that is first. I recently state we didn’t see eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The very fact on it, makes me think you may be the one that likes to stir the muck that you put a “crazy” label.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am
Additionally, you could be kinda crazy as well if you are willing to call someone crazy, wouldn’t that mean?
Rilooyah July 17, 2012, 4:44 pm
Therefore real! When the” that is“crazy away, Im operating one other method. I think it absolutely was said above- whenever you attract the crazy, the denominator Spiritual Sites dating sites that is common always YOU, friend.
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:21 am july
To be honest, that it really is partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he’s in this relationship, and she’s knows that when this occurred to her she most likely will be upset about this too, yet somehow she continues to respond to this dudes calls and even though he keeps stating that he could be dreaming about her, and all sorts of of that bull shit.
Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 10:26 am july
Yep! We completely agree. LW, simply stop responding to. Don’t talk to the woman since your simply likely to cause drama. You must just understand he’s maybe maybe not your boyfriend and also that you know he has a girlfriend is making you a bad guy in this too though you still like his attention, the fact.
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:35 am
This is certainly a point that is great you dudes. I didnt think about it like this.
So LW, if you actually do respect their relationship and wish them happyness, leave them alone!! Like eljay (I like you, eljay) said, some one has got to function as the adult in this example. If he could be maybe not ready to be, you should do it.
Painted_lady 17, 2012, 2:17 pm july
Amen bestie – we trust you about talking to your gf. That knows exactly exactly just what this guy has stated concerning the LW to justify their speaking so frequently, but although the relationship is none of the company, the fact the LW as well as the girlfriend that is new met now i believe enables the LW some freedom. If I’d held it’s place in a scenario where a buddy brought somebody around that I experienced learned about and wished to be friends with (I’m likely to assume that the LW desires that? ) and it also went horribly, i would touch base and get, hey, I’m so sorry that went defectively. She does not fundamentally need certainly to state, “Hey, so that your boyfriend was saying that is___ in my experience and he’s the main one calling, and then he said you’re ok with this specific, ” just “Hey, I’m so sorry that went poorly, I became beneath the impression you had been ok with this being buddies, but i recently discovered I’m maybe maybe maybe not fine with your being friends either, so that it’s no problem anymore. ”
Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 9:37 am
I’dn’t speak to the gf about that. If I had been dating somebody for just two months the very last thing i might desire is their ex of three years reaching down to me personally. And simply to share with you you respect her relationship? I might think you had been bullshitting me personally and playing mind games. Simply simply Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex partner you don’t wish to hear from him for some time, and then keep them alone. Truthfully they probably won’t work-out them work that out themselves because you are still in the picture (which doesn’t do great things for a new relationship), but let.
Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 9:39 am
Oh in addition, that we leave immediately if I were the new girlfriend and my bf and I ran into his ex at a bar I would also demand. It is therefore uncomfortable. Every person pretends they can be” that is“mature stay buddies with exes and stay completely okay whenever your SO’s ex appears, but why? You don’t have actually become okay with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of three years.
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:28 am july